Navigating Teen Love: What Parents Need to Know About Dating, Boundaries, and Healthy Relationships

When adolescents start dating, it can be far more intense, serious, and potentially unhealthy than parents may be aware of. Today on Sh*t Your Teenagers Won’t Tell You, we are discussing all things teen love and relationships and sharing advice for parents who may not know how to handle it. In this conversation, we dig into why relationship talks with your teen might feel uncomfortable but are crucial to start before the need becomes urgent. We cover what to keep in mind when your child becomes interested in dating, then walk parents through 10 signs of both healthy and unhealthy relationships, discuss how modeling good relationships can impact your kids, go over common mistakes in teen dating, and explain how a strong sense of self can empower teens in their romantic relationships. We also discuss why boundaries are imperative, why you need to meet your child’s boyfriend/girlfriend and their family, and the danger of too much permissiveness. Finally, we touch on the extra layer of complexity LGBTQIA dating adds to teenage relationships. You don’t want to miss this one, so be sure to tune in now!

Key Points From This Episode:

• [0:00:50] Today’s topic: love and dating in teens. 
• [0:02:50] Why having relationship conversations with your teen can be uncomfortable. 
• [0:03:40] What to consider as your children become interested in dating. 
• [0:08:30] 10 Signs of a healthy (and unhealthy) relationship to teach your teenagers about. 
• [0:09:46] The importance of modeling healthy relationships for your kids. 
• [0:11:58] Some of the mistakes we see teenagers make when it comes to dating. 
• [0:16:30] The kids that are the most successful and most problematic in relationships. 
• [0:18:00] Meeting to meet your kid’s partner and be aware of each family’s rules. 
• [0:22:31] Why the permissiveness around relationships is a slippery slope. 
• [0:24:56] The layer of complexity that having an LGBTQ+ child adds to teen dating. 

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